DAY by DAY, I am getting better in every way.
DREAM things that never were and ask why not?
DARE to DREAM new dreams.
Leaders DARE to be DIFFERENT. -Dr. Howard Jans-
It seems that everything you have ever learned is about preparing yourself for a better future. It is easy to get so caught up in the future that you lose the ability to enjoy the life you are living right now.
The Power Of The Present
The first thing you should do to take action toward a better life is to realize the present moment’s power. There are different ways you can genuinely come to this realization, but the most popular and widely accepted method is meditation.
Meditation allows you to clear your mind. It is refreshing to focus on the present moment when you find the time to sit down and relax without worrying about the past or future.
Your reflection time will allow you to sort out your inner thoughts. On the flip side, take note of the number of times your mind tries to distract you from the present moment. You will be surprised to see just how many times your mind steals the present moment from you to dwell on the past or future.
Enjoy The Journey
Your journey is all you have. Your goals are important, but it is the path you take toward your goals that yield many fruits. You must be willing to enjoy your life and live consciously, even if you haven’t yet reached your goals.
If you have a lofty goal, such as becoming a doctor or the CEO of a large company, realize that it will take much planning and years of experience. Once you reach your goal, you may feel fulfilled, but your life must not be unhappy and miserable until you get there!
You can remain happy by concentrating on the present and enjoying the journey. As you make positive progress towards your goal, you will know that you are always one step closer.
Envision Your Future Self
While you should spend a great deal of time enjoying the present moment, you can add to your happiness by envisioning your future self.
Reflect on the feelings associated with the successful completion of your goals. Think about the traits you will exhibit when you have the life you desire. Now bring those traits into your present.
If you study to be a doctor, you are working long days for little or no pay. You are studying at all hours with little sleep. You might feel almost tortured. That is not the desired life you dreamt of having!
Now is when you should be proud of the steps you have taken so far. After all, what you are learning now will shape your future, so you might as well approach today with joyful gratitude!
Live The Life You Want Now
Whether you maintain complete focus on your ultimate goals or not, it is essential to living the life you desire right now. You do not know how many days you have on this earth, and you owe it to yourself to make the most of them!
Keep these tips in mind:
- Even on busy days, take at least some time for yourself
- Do not waste your time on people who do not believe in you and your abilities
- Adopt a “glass is half full” mentality
Most importantly, it would help if you believe in yourself. Some people are afraid of success. They will take no action toward their dreams indefinitely because they fear success and fear that they are incapable.
It would help if you did not fall into this negative pattern. Do not waste your time on dead ends. Instead, take action, learn your lessons, and enjoy the journey!
Until next time, stay safe, and keep the faith.